"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11
God's plan for us may seem further from being clear this year than most, but times like these certainly give pause for reflection on the things in life that truly matter.
Pope Benedict XVI on Dec. 17 spoke about the global economic crisis during his audience with pilgrims and tourists at Vatican City, expressing hope that the financial turmoil would help people focus on the spiritual meaning of Christmas.
I've been reading the Pope's book about Jesus – which I highly recommend – and among the many things I learned I'd like to share this insight.
In the Lord's Prayer, I've often been puzzled by the second last verse: "Lead us not into temptation".
At the risk of oversimplifying the Pope's explanation, this petition is an opportunity for us to ask that while we realize God grants some latitude for us to be put to the test, we are reminding Him in this petition of our personal limits when He tests our mettle.
Speaking for myself, I've been surprised to see how much I've been expected to endure. My mother often told me that God never gives us more than we can handle, so I guess I'm stronger than I had realized!
Seven years ago, when my eldest son was born in Argentina, the economy there collapsed into a depression deeper than the U.S. Great Depression. A year later, my employer transferred my family to Canada in what was a very difficult separation for my then spouse from her parents and sister in Argentina. Two years later, she took our boys back to Argentina for what she said would be a visit but then informed me once she was there that it was a permanent relocation. A year later, I almost went bankrupt and the year after that a restructuring squeezed me out of my vocation of 20 years.
Now I have met a kind and loving woman here in Ottawa whose children are very warm and accepting of me.
I've managed to organize my life in a way that's allowed me to fly down to see my sons in Argentina six times each year for the last three years.
People I have known for a long time often ask me how I managed not to succumb to despair (or vengefulness) in the past seven years. My answer is simple: Faith, family and friends got me through this.
Honestly, there have been times where almost all hope appeared to be lost. At those low points I would just remind myself to take things one day (sometimes even just one hour) at a time and that's when my prayers would be answered.
I wouldn't wish the travails of the last seven years of my life on my worst enemy, but I have prospered through it in the form of a much stronger faith, tougher character and life in a healthy and loving family setting here in Ottawa.
Despite all that has been said and done to impede my relationship with my sons, whom I see at most a total of 45 days each year, they are always enthusiastic and grateful each time we are reunited.
This gives me hope for an even brighter future than the one that has begun to dawn in my life now.
I'm not financially richer than I was in the year 2000, but in so many other ways God has blessed me with a prosperity that transcends materialism.
"But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." (Isaiah 40:31)
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
BLESSED SACRAMENT PARISH
CHRISTMAS SCHEDULE 2008
RECONCILIATION SERVICE: Monday, December 15th at 7:00 p.m.
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CHRISTMAS EVE: Wednesday, December 24th
* 3:00 p.m. Children’s Service with Pageant
* 4:00 p.m. Children’s Service with Pageant
* 5:00 p.m. Children’s Service with Pageant
* 6:30 p.m. Family Mass
* 8:00 p.m. Family Mass – Celebration of the Nativity
10:00 p.m. Family Mass
Midnight Traditional Solemn Celebration
(* Tickets are required for crowd control only)
CHRISTMAS DAY: Thursday, December 25th
9:30 a.m. & 11:00 a.m.
NEW YEAR’S EVE: Wednesday, December 31 @ 6:00 p.m.
NEW YEAR’S DAY: Thursday, January 1 @ 11:00 a.m.
Email from Father Joe
A little pre-Christmas note and I guess some clarification to stop our phones, emails and faxes from burning up! Albeit, it is very good to feel so cared about and I take this as a definite sign that our community is strong and well. Actually, this truly is what discernment is all about. It affirms in me, that our faith is well and alive. I am very happy here at Blessed Sacrament and given my druthers, would like to extend my pastor ship for another possible 3 years into my 25th ordination anniversary if that is what The LORD wants. I need your prayers. In the meantime, I am open to change if that is what HE wants (discernment). So even though Advent is supposed to shock us, it was not my intention to abandon your ship. Otherwise, it would have been said so with more emotion. Please rest assured that I look forward to your upcoming weddings, baptisms (not necessarily your funeral) but our celebrations of life into the future!
Affectionately,
Father Joe
Affectionately,
Father Joe
Thursday, December 4, 2008
A listening heart
"Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails." Proverbs 19:21
I thought of this verse when I heard Fr. Joe tell us about the possible end of his assignment at our parish, and again when he sent this week's email about his possible reassignment.
It's a tough call and I sincerely wish him the best in his soul searching because he certainly has a gift for helping people understand God's word.
I'm a relatively new parishioner here, having chosen this parish a year ago after moving back to Canada, so I can't pretend to know Fr. Joe as well as most people sitting in the pews around me.
What I do know is that like the last city I lived in, I attended different parishes until I found a place that "felt right", for lack of a better term. Blessed Sacrament is that place.
I think this is what Fr. Joe was driving at in his email this week when he emphasized the concept of "discernment", which dictionaries variously describe as an ability to grasp or comprehend what is obscure.
At times I've prayed for a certain outcome only to have that desire frustrated and later learn that either it was because something much better was coming along or my desired outcome was really just an illusion. When that happens, Proverbs 19:21 comes to mind.
I find it insightful that the author of Proverbs, King Solomon, prayed for a listening heart above all other things at his ascension to the throne.
It seems to me that we live our lives in a cacophony of distractions and it can be difficult to make discerning choices. (Dictionaries defining the adjective "discerning" as showing good judgement).
I would be sad to see Fr. Joe go, but if that's what's meant to be I'm sure it will become clear to him sooner or later because his gift for helping people understand God's word must come from having a heart that's more attuned to listening than mine or many other people
I thought of this verse when I heard Fr. Joe tell us about the possible end of his assignment at our parish, and again when he sent this week's email about his possible reassignment.
It's a tough call and I sincerely wish him the best in his soul searching because he certainly has a gift for helping people understand God's word.
I'm a relatively new parishioner here, having chosen this parish a year ago after moving back to Canada, so I can't pretend to know Fr. Joe as well as most people sitting in the pews around me.
What I do know is that like the last city I lived in, I attended different parishes until I found a place that "felt right", for lack of a better term. Blessed Sacrament is that place.
I think this is what Fr. Joe was driving at in his email this week when he emphasized the concept of "discernment", which dictionaries variously describe as an ability to grasp or comprehend what is obscure.
At times I've prayed for a certain outcome only to have that desire frustrated and later learn that either it was because something much better was coming along or my desired outcome was really just an illusion. When that happens, Proverbs 19:21 comes to mind.
I find it insightful that the author of Proverbs, King Solomon, prayed for a listening heart above all other things at his ascension to the throne.
It seems to me that we live our lives in a cacophony of distractions and it can be difficult to make discerning choices. (Dictionaries defining the adjective "discerning" as showing good judgement).
I would be sad to see Fr. Joe go, but if that's what's meant to be I'm sure it will become clear to him sooner or later because his gift for helping people understand God's word must come from having a heart that's more attuned to listening than mine or many other people
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Christmas: a time for peace
"Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice" Ephesians 4:31
This might seem an odd verse to choose to discuss with less than one month before Christmas, but I would argue it is at the core of the meaning of Christmas.
I once read somewhere that Christmas is one of the most stressful dates on the calendar, rife with depression, suicide and domestic violence.
That's tragic, isn't it?
I suspect that an important reason for this is we feel compelled to maintain an appearance of harmony rather than get down to the hard work of making amends and making peace with those who have a quarrel with us.
I've certainly witnessed, all too often, blood relations and their spouses force themselves to maintain a fragile front to endure a few hours or days together once a year for the sake of the Christmas tradition.
I regret to admit that I am barely on speaking terms with the mother of my children and Christmas is far from a harmonious time for our boys and either one of us.
I am happy to say, however, that I've been working hard to get rid of my bitterness, anger and brawling.
Sure, at times some hurtful actions or words really hit a raw nerve and it takes a lot of self-discipline to bite my tongue, and forgive.
But I invariably feel glad I did bite my tongue, and bring myself to show mercy rather than lash out in return.
Why?
Because bitterness rots us from within and spoils everything around us.
Like most people, I imagine, I do at times let "things get under my skin", or rattle me or get a rise out of me -- the beginnings of bitterness.
But I try to remind myself that bitterness motivates habitual complaining.
I'm always embarrassed when I discover myself indulging in this. (Job 7:11, 10:1) Bitterness is the trigger of indulging in self-pitying and/or vengeful thoughts and that's the slippery slope to a whole slew of sins.
It's interesting to me that Jesus Christ was born at a time of political strife and volatility, in a land dominated by a foreign empire and an indigenous population bitterly divided in their interpretations of how to submit to God's will.
I've heard people describe the arrival of the Messiah as a spiritual D-day, the turning point in the war between good and evil. Not the day of victory, but the day hope of victory was born. Jesus Christ came to redeem us from our sins.
His mission was also to show us how to live according to God's will.
When his cousin, John the Baptist, was beheaded, he did not avenge.
When he himself was crucified, he sought mercy for his accusers.
"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good" Romans 12:21
This might seem an odd verse to choose to discuss with less than one month before Christmas, but I would argue it is at the core of the meaning of Christmas.
I once read somewhere that Christmas is one of the most stressful dates on the calendar, rife with depression, suicide and domestic violence.
That's tragic, isn't it?
I suspect that an important reason for this is we feel compelled to maintain an appearance of harmony rather than get down to the hard work of making amends and making peace with those who have a quarrel with us.
I've certainly witnessed, all too often, blood relations and their spouses force themselves to maintain a fragile front to endure a few hours or days together once a year for the sake of the Christmas tradition.
I regret to admit that I am barely on speaking terms with the mother of my children and Christmas is far from a harmonious time for our boys and either one of us.
I am happy to say, however, that I've been working hard to get rid of my bitterness, anger and brawling.
Sure, at times some hurtful actions or words really hit a raw nerve and it takes a lot of self-discipline to bite my tongue, and forgive.
But I invariably feel glad I did bite my tongue, and bring myself to show mercy rather than lash out in return.
Why?
Because bitterness rots us from within and spoils everything around us.
Like most people, I imagine, I do at times let "things get under my skin", or rattle me or get a rise out of me -- the beginnings of bitterness.
But I try to remind myself that bitterness motivates habitual complaining.
I'm always embarrassed when I discover myself indulging in this. (Job 7:11, 10:1) Bitterness is the trigger of indulging in self-pitying and/or vengeful thoughts and that's the slippery slope to a whole slew of sins.
It's interesting to me that Jesus Christ was born at a time of political strife and volatility, in a land dominated by a foreign empire and an indigenous population bitterly divided in their interpretations of how to submit to God's will.
I've heard people describe the arrival of the Messiah as a spiritual D-day, the turning point in the war between good and evil. Not the day of victory, but the day hope of victory was born. Jesus Christ came to redeem us from our sins.
His mission was also to show us how to live according to God's will.
When his cousin, John the Baptist, was beheaded, he did not avenge.
When he himself was crucified, he sought mercy for his accusers.
"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good" Romans 12:21
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." (Matthew 6:34)
I've found myself reading this verse a number of times in the past few weeks. I suppose it's easy enough for anyone to agree with the second sentence, but I think it's safe to say most of us struggle not to worry about tomorrow.
Markets have been at their most volatile since the end of the Second World War and all signs point to the global economy on the edge of what could be a deep recession whose length is anyone's guess.
Last year, my employer of 12 years was acquired in a friendly merger that made my job redundant. This year, my new employer cut me and dozens of other people in a wave of cost-cutting layoffs that put me out of work for a few months. Now I'm days away from wrapping up a contract job that may, or may not, turn into a full-time job.
One interpretation I draw from this verse is to take life one day at a time.
More specifically, I choose to read Matthew 6:34 to mean that no one knows what tomorrow has in store for us, but that we are defined by our actions today. So I take this verse to mean I am expected to do the best I can right now, and have faith that God will take care of the rest.
A friend of mine still works with my former long-term employer overseas and he just learned that his position is being cut in January. He was told he has to find himself work elsewhere in a multinational that is still in the throes of melding two companies into one, or look outside.
My advice to him was to explore all his options while motivating himself to do the best work he can in his current job, until his destiny is revealed.
Gilbert LeGras
I've found myself reading this verse a number of times in the past few weeks. I suppose it's easy enough for anyone to agree with the second sentence, but I think it's safe to say most of us struggle not to worry about tomorrow.
Markets have been at their most volatile since the end of the Second World War and all signs point to the global economy on the edge of what could be a deep recession whose length is anyone's guess.
Last year, my employer of 12 years was acquired in a friendly merger that made my job redundant. This year, my new employer cut me and dozens of other people in a wave of cost-cutting layoffs that put me out of work for a few months. Now I'm days away from wrapping up a contract job that may, or may not, turn into a full-time job.
One interpretation I draw from this verse is to take life one day at a time.
More specifically, I choose to read Matthew 6:34 to mean that no one knows what tomorrow has in store for us, but that we are defined by our actions today. So I take this verse to mean I am expected to do the best I can right now, and have faith that God will take care of the rest.
A friend of mine still works with my former long-term employer overseas and he just learned that his position is being cut in January. He was told he has to find himself work elsewhere in a multinational that is still in the throes of melding two companies into one, or look outside.
My advice to him was to explore all his options while motivating himself to do the best work he can in his current job, until his destiny is revealed.
Gilbert LeGras
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Pastoral Care Team Information update
Blessed Sacrament's Pastoral Care team has updated the information on their web page. The pastoral care team brings listening, sharing, prayer, and the sacraments to people who may not be able to get to church.
You can read all about them (including opportunities to volunteer) at their page on the parish website.
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